I have learned that even when someone matches every single trait on your list, without chemistry, it is doomed. I want someone who can keep up with me, who has a sense of humor, someone to stimulate my mind, thrill me, spoil me, and grow with me. Intelligence is one of the most sexiest traits in a person. I am looking for someone funny, articulate, down to earth, generous, worldly, spiritual, and adventurous. My match should be a fine looking specimen with a love of fine dining, traveling, shopping, and exploring new territory.